The
wedding ceremony is the heart of the wedding. It's the reason the
couple's loved ones have gathered together - to witness the wedding
vows that joins the couple in matrimony. This touching expression of
love, devotion and commitment has moved many a guest to tears. A
wedding is one of life's most joyous occasions and many guests are
honored to have shared in the special moment.
Religious
wedding ceremonies are the perfect way for a couple to join together in
the name of God. A beautiful expression of love and faith, a religious
wedding ceremony often follows sacred and time-honored traditions that
have a special significance. A religious wedding ceremony often
accentuates the spiritual side of marriage and the joining of two
souls.
A non-religious wedding ceremony is better
suited to those of a more secular nature. While religion is not
mentioned the same themes of love, trust and commitment remain.
Non-religious wedding ceremonies include services that are without
rituals; ceremonies that include rituals but no religious elements; and
finally those that are religious in feel, but not in practice. Due the
variety of styles and experiences among non-religious wedding
ceremonies many include custom wedding vows.
Writing
your own wedding vows allows you to express your feelings for your
partner in your own words. While certain requirements should be met
(for legal purposes) you are free to write vows that better reflect
your hopes, dreams and expectations. If you're having trouble
articulating your feelings your wedding officiant can provide
suggestions. Of course, you must first choose your wedding officiant!
In
addition to deciding how to get married you must also decide where to
have your wedding ceremony. You may decide to get married in a church.
Or you may prefer an outdoor wedding ceremony. The advantage of an
outdoor ceremony is that Mother Nature provides all the necessary
wedding ceremony decorations.
Lastly, decide if you
would like to include additional rituals during the ceremony. A unity
candle is popular for its symbolism and as a sweet way to end the
ceremony. This should be done in a simple and dignified manner. There's
no need to dwell on sorrow during what is a happy, joyous occasion. A
wedding is a celebration of life - which your past loved ones would
understand.